It’s easier that way. Instead of wasting time being upset by something someone says or does, and then later coming to the insight that we will need to forgive them why not decide right now to BE always in that forgiving mode. Forgive everyone everything.
Now if you react in disagreeing with me here believe me I will understand you. Some years ago, I disagreed with another Lightworker when asked to have a forgiving outlook regarding a well-known so called spiritual teacher. I had learned that this soul had sexually abused and traumatized many hundreds over the years. I was still angry at reverence still being paid to this person and was not ready to consider forgiveness.